I’ve repeatedly told him I don’t want to have s*x with anyone else but he tells me I’m the luckiest wife alive as no other husband would encourage his wife to have s*x with other men.
We were both in our late twenties when we married 15 years ago. We have always had a very active s*x life but he’s become increasingly hard to please. I had no problem with him watching P0*n or dressing up for him, but then he started talking about having a threesome with another woman to turn him on.
I thought he meant it just as a fantasy – something to talk about, not do – but he got the impression I was willing to hire a female escort and have s*x with her as a turn-on for him. When I didn’t he got angry, and aggressive and made my life hell for weeks afterwards.
Then he picked up the guy in the club for a threesome. I knew I’d have to go along with it or the next few months would be unbearable. I wasn’t attracted to the guy at all but I had to act out everything my husband wanted while he made it even worse by videoing it all. I just switched off or I’d have lost my mind.
Now he watches the video repeatedly and has started on about us doing it again.
I have to behave like a slut otherwise he can’t get turned on. I just feel like an object for his pleasure. I know the kids deserve to have their dad around but I’m not sure how much more I can take – this is not a marriage to me. I hate it but he only cares about his own desires. I am married to a perverted stranger.