9 Reasons Why Some Nigerian Ladies End Up Single For Life
1.
Many African ladies will end up singles for life because of media
exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a
mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me,
what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake
celebrity life being promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just
because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men
playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to
modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s
aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our
previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now,
with this attitude, how do you expect a African man to desire to marry
when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper
for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and serious-minded men off- if
you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive
makeup, and more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos it speaks ill of
a lady even though so many men will applaud and complement you for
looking like an Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you are
out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract
better men, decent and serious-minded, except you are still living in
your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Joystick & Harry! No man
would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking
and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or
disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are
Dating- because your best friend married without contributing anything
to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you
that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a
value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth
committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or
material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him
attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual
support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and
problems to be solved.
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to reserve some things for your husband to be, especially your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or privileges they had been constantly denied while being single. Such privileges include and not limited to: constant s*x and companionship, good food and tidied home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best and of course more of constant s*x, good food and excellent home-keeping more than his married counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to desire to marry you when you have given him virtually everything he desires from a wife while being his girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he knows that you are prepared to cut down on s*x supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries you, so why would he not want you to remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you look more whorish than modest; more distractive than attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your dressing style determines who gets attracted to you most times. If you dress high school, only high school-thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate s*x urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of ladies you wouldn’t like to be associated with, be careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’, ‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do away with it.
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