While many men would go berserk on sighting their wives’ lovers,
there is a group of men in Lagos who actually welcome their wives’
sexual partners. A woman having sexual relationship with another man who
is not her husband is generally frowned at in most, if not all,
cultures of man. It is considered as infidelity and also frowned at by
all known religions of man. This, however, is not to ignore the
existence of infidelity which is usually engaged in by both parties
discreetly.
But in a part of the megacity of Lagos, the above is not the norm. It
is actually the other way round. In this part of the city, a new wave
of commercial sex activity is fast gaining ground. Husbands not only
know that their wives are prostitutes; they also make available their
apartments for their wives to service their clients.
Consider this: A woman who does not look like the archetypal
commercial sex worker and a man converse by the roadside, a make shift
shop or a kiosk, a bargain is struck, the two of them head towards the
woman’s residence. The woman’s husband observes their approach. He
quickly rounds the kids together, makes the apartment look presentable,
shoos the kids out of the room and he stays somewhere until his wife
finishes servicing her client. Welcome to Majiyagbe Street, via Morocco
Road in Shomolu area of Lagos where wives feed their husbands and
children from the proceeds of prostitution with the full consent of the
man. Saturday Mirror observed that prostitution is not the only vice
prevalent in Majiyagbe Street. Banned drugs are also hawked with
novelty.
However, it is also alleged that suspected stolen vehicles and
motorcycles find their way into the area. It is also claimed that small
arms are kept with some of the illicit drug hawkers plying their trade
in the area. Reports also have it that most of the customers of these
prostitutes are men of questionable character who use the place as
hideout after perpetrating their acts. Saturday Mirror investigations
also revealed that most of the owners of the houses lining Majiyagbe had
moved out of the vicinity, but only said their agents to collect rent
from the occupants of those buildings.
Majiyagbe is a fairly long street with dozens of makeshift houses and
kiosks lining both sides. Entering Majiyagbe Street, a first time
visitor would take the area for a normal living community. Banners,
posters of various soft and hard drinks are conspicuously displayed on
those shops, while GSM service providers’ stickers also adorn most of
the shops. That is in the morning and early afternoon. In the late
afternoon until the wee hours of the day, the street wears another look.
The rooms, shops, kiosks and containers on the street are short time
accommodation to sex customers. However, investigations also revealed
that not all residents of the beleaguered street are involved in this
act. Some of them still live on the street, apparently because of lack
the wherewithal to relocate from the area. Saturday Mirror discovered
that about the time the sex seeking customers start arriving, the
husbands of the prostitutes would vacate the apartments. They would only
return when the wives call them that the apartment is ready for the
family again.
In such situations, the children too are made to seek alternative
abodes while their mothers engage their ‘customers’ in their family
apartments. A resident of the area, who identified himself simply as
Olatunji, told Saturday Mirror that most of the commercial sex workers
on Majiyagbe Street are from a certain part of the country and are not
indigenes of the state or Yoruba, but they have been living in the place
for decades. Olatunji maintained that the prostitutes get the backing
of their husbands while they carry out their trade to the full knowledge
of their children. “Most of the women took to prostitution to survive
and this is to the knowledge of their husbands. Over the years, their
female children grew up to see their mothers do what they do and later
continue the trade,” Olatunji added.
Another resident, who preferred anonymity, disclosed to Saturday
Mirror that before now, stolen cars and commercial motorcycles were
brought into the area for remodelling. The source however said the new
Divisional Police Officer in the area had carried out raids on the
workshops of the panel beaters always working on the stolen automobiles
which had drastically reduced that part of the anomalies on Majiyagbe
Street. “All manner of hard drugs are sold on Majiyagbe Street, but the
effort of the new police boss in the area has made the hawkers to device
new means of selling their wares. Now, the drug dealers are mobile.
Instead of selling the drugs in shops, they carry them around in bags,
and sometimes in their pockets,” the source said. Favour Ideh (not real
names) is one of the prostitutes on Majiyagbe Street.
Ideh, 37, and mother of three boys, initially did not want to disclose
her real job to Saturday Mirror. She told Saturday Mirror that she sells
recharge cards on the streets. However, she later owned up to her
prostitution business. Ideh, however, said that she had to send her kids
to school when the company where their father used to work folded up at
Apapa. “I have lived here with my husband and three boys in the last
eight years. But in 2009, my husband lost his job when his office folded
up at Apapa. Where there was no gratuity coming and he was sick at the
time, I had to seek alternative ways of providing for the needs of the
family,” Ideh justified her line of business.
Source: Saturday Mirror