Men Don’t See Us as Wife Materials But as s*x Toys –Actress
Aisha Abimbola Musa is an actress and she’s popularly known
as Omoge campus because of her lead role in the Yoruba movie titled
Omoge Campus released in 2002.
The graduate of Hotel Management and Catering, and mother of two
reveals in a chat with Angela Davies that a lot of men don’t see
actresses as marriageable.
Enjoy the interesting and revealing chat below….
What is the misconception you think people have about you?
People think I am rude and arrogant because of the roles I play most
times. And for that, I don’t like to be stereotyped. However, because of
my physique and voice people tend to be comfortable with me playing the
role of a bad girl. Unfortunately, people have misconstrued me to be
bad, arrogant and always snobbish but that is not me. But with the new
roles that I have played of recent, people are trying to get acquainted
with my real person, trying to separate me from whom I really am in
movies.
So, can you please describe your personality?
Aisha Abimbola is a humble, extremely down to earth, God fearing, kind and gentle hearted.
How did you meet your husband and what was the attraction?
The attraction was what made us friends initially. He was a member of
my church, Christ Embassy and we started talking about Pastor Chris,
that was where the attraction started and we became friends. Months
later, precisely on November 2, 2004 he asked me to marry him and I said
we are just friends, no dating and no courtship. However on February 3,
2005 we were married.
What do you do to keep your marriage intact because a lot of celebrity marriages have crashed?
(Laughs) Na God, nothing pass God. A lot of men out there don’t see
actresses as marriageable, they see us as toys. They see us as women
they can just come to, gamble with and go. Imagine a man betting with
his friend that I can date that actress, even marry her and have kids
from her. And once he is done, he is gone.
Before I was married, I had different impressions about marriage but
now I know better. There are quite a number of women, even actresses who
want to be married but when a man batters a woman and she is at the
point of death, do you want her to still stay? A lot of actresses are
facing this just that they cannot come out and say this is what we are
facing.
Some have tried maintaining a loveless marriage, they tried holding
on to it and some of them are dead now. And I am not an advocate of
such, if it is not working, don’t die there, instead of you to die and
leave your kids as orphans, please leave and take care of your kids.